By Cecilia Winegar

A riot of color, quirkiness, and pure fun, “Amelie” was the perfect escape. Starring Phillipa Soo, the show tells the story of a young woman who seeks to better the lives of others, and makes a discovery about her own life in the process. The show is absolutely beautiful, certainly one of the most charming shows I have seen.

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Phillipa Soo, who plays Amelie, is an absolute treasure, and a joy to watch on stage. From “The Great Comet of 1812” to “Hamilton” and now to “Amelie”, she is one of Broadway’s rising stars. She was positively perfect for the role, and she adds dynamic and intensity to every moment she is on stage. She portrays the character flawlessly, and when she sings, you feel transported into Amelie’s mind. Amelie is a more comedic character, very different compared to the other roles that Soo has played, but she still brings just right amount of fun and love to the role. She was no doubt the best part of the entire show.

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Adam Chanler-Berat, Phillipa Soo’s co-star, plays Nino, a photo collector, who falls in love with Amelie. He too was well-cast, and his voice was well-crafted to the music. His imitation of the character was excellent. However his performance was very different from Phillipa Soo’s because Nino does not go through the same personal journey that Amelie does. Most known from “Next to Normal” this show was a pleasant change from his past work in a more serious show, and he played the happy-go-lucky character of Nino perfectly.

The rest of the show was just as well cast as Phillipa Soo. With a roughly 11 people in total, each actor/actress, was chosen with the utmost care, and it shows. Most of the cast plays multiple roles and the same level of energy and vigor is brought to each character. While the size of the cast may be small, each and every one of them packs a punch with the portrayal of each role.

The setting of the stage was very interesting, with a raised bridge above a series of doors up and down the walls of the stage. For me, it is always interesting to look at the beginning set up of the stage before the show, and then over the course of the show see how they use that stage to tell the story. It was the same with “Amelie”. The sets were very simple, yet there were just enough to tell the story as needed. They were built perfectly for the show, and they added to the wonder.

The costuming was also very simple. Amelie remains in her signature red shirt and skirt, and Nino in his army green jacket. With the large number of characters throughout the show, there also many costumes, and while each one is very simple, each one captures the dynamic and personal flair of each role. While no costume in particular stands out, it is still very easy to tell the characters apart based on how their personalities match their style of dress. It is all very aesthetically pleasing.      

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The actual plotline follows that of the 2005 movie “Amelie”. It echoed the story of the movie as closely as possible, and the result was a fun-loving show. Amelie herself is very quirky; she’s an introvert, she has her own ideas, and she believes that it’s perfectly ok to be a dreamer in a world of thinkers. The show does a very good job of using the simplicity of the show to focus on the personal journey that Amelie goes on, and it really brings the audience in.

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The musical score was very interesting. While music was not particularly riveting compared to other shows I have seen, some of the songs were deeply moving – my personal favorite being “Stay”, when Amelie finally realizes she wants to live her own life and not the lives of others. The music transports you into Amelie’s world just like the sets, costumes, and characters do. The show is looked at from an outside perspective, but when Amelie sings, you get that little look into her mind, and see what she’s thinking, and the music captures all of the emotions that Amelie is feeling beautifully.

“Amelie” was a joy to have the opportunity to see. The plot is boisterous and full of life, and although straightforward, every moment is just pure delight. Phillipa Soo is a dream come true to watch on stage, and I could rave about her sheer talent and glorious voice all day. “Amelie” was the perfect escape from an otherwise upside down world, and I enjoyed every minute of it. If you are looking for a show that completely transports you away from everything stressful in your life, “Amelie” is the perfect show for you, and you will find yourself walking away from the theater in absolute bliss.

Editor’s note: We received two complimentary tickets to see Amelie. Opinions are all the author’s. The show announced it is closing on May 21st, so hurry to get your chance to see Phillipa Soo and the cast

Author: Cecilia Winegar is a high school freshman and passionate about musical theater. She has performed in student productions of Aladdin (Iago), The Music Man (Farmer’s Wife), The Wiz (The Wiz) and Legally Blonde (Judge, Harvard Student). 

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Kindness Begins With Me

by Chrysula on January 4, 2016 in life,mothering,parenting,planning

 

In the spirit of #keepinitreal, I am often unkind.

I am compassionate. I have a heart for justice and equality. Yet, I can be blunt, judgmental and harsh – especially to those I love most. Perhaps it is part of being human. That doesn’t mean it is acceptable. That doesn’t mean it is who I want to be.

Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. ~ Dalai Lama

 

In 2015, my word for the year was stillness. I made some tiny inroads, but nowhere near enough. My life is amazing, but insane. Between work, travel, co-running a home and family, volunteering with church, and community life, it is easy to get overwhelmed. Patience falls ever lower on the list.

I am realizing the path to greater stillness and peace may actually begin with greater kindness: kindness to my Beloved and our children; kindness to our extended families; kindness to my collaborators and friends; kindness to strangers. And kindness to myself.

I grew up in a deeply passionate household. There was fierce love. But there was also just fierceness. We are an argumentative bunch. We like to fight, with lots of screaming and shouting. It’s the Mediterranean ancestry perhaps (ever notice my name is the Greek-est ever?). While it meant we didn’t hold in fractious issues, it makes for an exhausting and combative environment at times – and someone always says something to regret afterwards.

I’ve taken some of that into my own family. When I’m tired and stressed and overwhelmed (and quite frankly that is a lot of the time), I shout and yell. Words come out of my mouth that I instantly regret. I am snappish and impatient and frustrated. I am angry too often, so much more than I want to be. Ever. It’s ridiculous, and immature and it’s not reflective of my higher self.

Kindness Begins With Me

My one word for the new year is not original. It’s not new or fresh. But it’s what I need and what my family needs from me. My word for 2016 is kindness. And as the children’s song so wisely states, that kindness begins with me.

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Take Down That Flag

by Chrysula on June 26, 2015 in defining,listening

Black Lives MatterA friend just posed a question on social media, asking for views on the Confederate flag. As a foreigner but long-time US resident I view the flag as completely abhorrent; mostly because when a group of people consistently tell me that their blood has been shed both historically and in the present in the name of that flag, I believe them.

It actually doesn’t matter if some don’t think it’s a racist symbol and that it’s part of their history, when a significant group of people feel their very lives threatened by what it represents. What it has BECOME completely trumps what some perceive it to have been in the past.

The flag doesn’t take away the core reasons behind the horrific shootings in Charleston last week. Racism. The word makes white people uncomfortable. “Not I” we say. However, just like the flag, it actually doesn’t matter if we don’t think we are racist, or that the past is the past, when a significant group of people feel their very lives are under attack. It’s time we believe what our brothers and sisters of color of telling us.

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I beg you to check out this Systemic Guide to Racism.  Rewind a few times at min. 2.21, pay attention to the practice of “red lining” and stop telling me African American communities don’t want to work, are criminally minded and ‘do this to themselves.’ No really. Right now, and watch it twice!

Friends, we’ve got to get out of our echo chambers. We’ve got to listen to the keen of agony and pain that is tearing at the fabric of African American communities and white people have. to. get. involved. HAVE TO.

Here are some places to start from women I love, trust and deeply admire. There are MANY more.

  • On Charleston, forgiveness and black pain. ~ Luvvie Ajayi
  • On having a conversation, a simple place to start. ~ Gabrielle Blair
  • Talking (or not) about racism from the pulpit. ~ Kelly Wickham
  • A white person’s take on ‘otherness’ and how it’s made her think about racism. ~ Allison Czarnecki
  • Getting to the nitty gritty of how to tackle racism. ~ Kelly Wickham

In the meantime, we can’t all attend the viewings and funerals of those murdered in Charleston. However we can pay our respects virtually, as thousands did in person at the South Carolina state house for Rev. Clementa Pinckney.

P.S. When people say “black lives matter”, remember the rest of the sentence. What that phrase means is black lives matter just as much as white ones. When you say “but all lives matter” you are demonstrating you are not listening. No one is saying for one minute that all lives don’t matter. People of color just want to ensure that their lives matter as much as yours and mine. I for one, am damn sure they do.

 

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Since coming back from Mozambique a couple of weeks ago, I’ve been asked over and over, “How was it?” It’s a question I’ve never known how to answer because you simply can’t parse complex experiences, people and their stories into a quick sentence. I landed on a mantra of “it was amazing and complicated and depressing and inspiring and frustrating and beautiful and enraging and full of hope and optimism — all the things, all the feelings.”

I witnessed, as I have so many times in my life, the stark constrasts between wealth and poverty, between knowledge and ignorance, between opportunity and obstacles. I kept coming back to a single question — when are the mothers of Mozambique going to get angry? Behind that question is my firm belief that when people have information and knowledge about how things could be, about what their rights really are and how far their leaders are from keeping the promises of those values and rights, righteous anger and democratic process can change societies.

I’ve been mulling on that belief as I consume so many traumatic stories from around the world. I am an optimistic person. I rarely experience depression. I am resolute in my conviction that despite evil and hardship, the world is a truly wonderful, hopeful place. It is filled with good people, mostly trying to do the right thing.

And yet these past few months have been crushing.

Seeing Color

One thread running through some of the world’s toughest stories is racism. There is no such thing as color blindness when it comes to skin. We can pretend all we like that we don’t see difference, but society doesn’t play by the same rules. With recent events in Ferguson, Missouri, I am intent on listening, learning and paying attention to the stories of black America.

I’m learning from brilliant writers, many of whom I get to call friends. But there’s one lesson I didn’t need them to teach me because I’ve known it for such a long time. When someone tells you they are hurting, you believe them. It doesn’t matter if you don’t understand why. It doesn’t matter if you don’t think they should hurt. It doesn’t matter if you completely disagree with how they express that hurt. It is a basic human desire to be seen and heard. And believed.

When I was giving birth to my third child, I kept telling the medical staff that I felt the need to push. In their minds, the last time they’d checked me I was only dilated 4 cms and it was too soon. Finally I got in the attending doctor’s sight line (because he would not look at me), and inches away from his face I begged, “Why won’t you believe me?” He immediately packed up his things and left the room. I knew exactly what was happening inside my body. I just needed someone to hear me so I could get the right support to deliver my baby as safely as possible. I ended up giving birth to that child alone. When help finally did arrive, it was awkward and honestly a bit useless. When my baby emerged, I roared, scooping him up and demanding “give me my child!” because all trust was gone. I hadn’t been heard.

Being Heard

When friends of color tell us racism is real and they experience it on a constant basis, we have to believe them. When black co-workers share they are frightened for their children, especially their sons, we must hear them. I don’t for one minute agree with or condone the raging and looting in Ferguson. But when you’re pushed and pushed and pushed again, and no one will believe you, it explodes. Many communities have experienced moments where frenzied youth decide to smash windows and burn cars – often over matters like a sports team win or loss, or pumpkins. I have no words for the vitriol and hatred I’ve seen in my social media channels against black youth doing those same things because they are sick and tired of not being believed. They are sick and tired of not being heard.

We must challenge our filters. We must examine our biases. Do we have friends with skin colors of hues not the same as our own? Do we have friends of different political and social persuasions? Do we have friends with varied religious backgrounds? Do we take in information from news sources we don’t agree with? We can and must do better at seeing, listening and hearing each other. We must not only start seeing color, but we must call it out when we don’t.

Please don’t respond to this essay with “but what about black on black violence?” unless you’re truly ready to grapple with why it exists in the first place. Do you really think black communities in this country aren’t heart-sick and weary of dysfuntion and senseless violence in certain neighborhoods? Do you really think mothers of color aren’t grieving when their children are shot by other members of their community ? Do you really think those communities aren’t doing everything they can to try to solve these crises? The issues are interconnected, deeply rooted in history, and until there is more listening and hearing and believing, we cannot ever be the truly equal and free society America claims to be. Don’t post quotes from Martin Luther King calling for peace and love, unless you’re also willing to acknowledge he died a violent death for daring to believe black men and women were equal to white men and women.

As I answer those asking how my recent trip to the third poorest country in the world was — a country decimated by the racism of colonial past and a civil war egged on by external players interested only in preserving white supremcy — I echo those same sentiments for the state of race relations in my beloved America. I am angry, I am hopeful, I am frustrated, I am encouraged, I am heart-sick, I am learning, and I am ultimately optimistic that as we start hearing and believing each other, we can change our society. We can change all the things. All the feelings.

Recommended reading

Kelly Wickham, 13 Essays on Race, especially Explaining White Privilege
Kristen Howerton, Why the lack of indictment for Mike Brown’s shooting is a devastating blow.
Heather Barmore, Why Don’t My White Friends Talk About Race? Here’s What They Told Me
Rebecca Woolf, Protest is Exactly What We Need
Amy Mascott, Something has to change, and it must start here – with you and with me.
Jennifer Borget, Police and Black Men Are at War, and the Two Men I Love Are on the Battlefield
Gina Crosley-Corcoran, Explaining White Privilege to a Broke White Person
K J Dell’Antonia, Talking About Racism With White Kids
Jamie Utt, 8 Things White People Need to Know About Race
Denene Millner, 12 Year Old Shot By Police. No Safe Place For Black Children.
Important links via Gabrielle Blair, on getting a job, being 21 more times likely to be shot by police, or shopping while black.

Compelling viewing

4:15pm 11-28-14 Edited for minor punctuation and grammatical corrections.
5:55pm 11-28-14 Edited for additional recommended reading.

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It has been too long since I’ve been under an African sky. More than 25 years have passed since last I breathed in this amazing continent. I left her with South Africa still under apartheid, AIDS unheard of and the Mozambican civil war endlessly raging.

DSC_0367 Veronica with her youngest child in Boane.

 

Most of us think we know the narrative of Africa: corruption, poverty, starving children, dying mothers, AIDS epidemic, warlords and dictators. There is truth in each one of those words, but they paint only a portion of the story. It’s easy to forget that a continent made up of 53 unique countries and island states cannot be labeled in a singular fashion. Within each one of those nations are regional and tribal communities with their own rich sub-cultures, languages and traditions. In Mozambique alone there are 43 languages and dialects spoken. There is another set of words: resources, music, wildlife, faith, community, love, growth, democracy, booming, excitement and passion: each equally truthful. In Mozambique these past two weeks, I’ve seen evidence of them all.

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The last time I was in this part of the world, Mozambican refugees were regularly crossing Kruger National Park, a massive game reserve in the north east of South Africa. The only way these families were making the news was when they were attacked and killed by lion. South Africans ignored the civil war between rivals Frelimo and Renamo, most ignorant to the fact that the South African government was supporting Renamo to destabilize the Mozambican ruling party. Frelimo had taken power in 1975 after the Portuguese left the country stripped bare in the name of independence.

Initially under a Marxist government, the country moved to a democratic multiparty system in 1989. Renamo became a political party and peace was finally negotiated in 1993. Frelimo still dominates and has won every election since independence. Streets named Lenin, Ho Chi Minh and Karl Marx are just some of the remnants of the country’s socialist past. Colonial architecture meshes with design from the early 70s and modern (mostly Chinese) shiny construction. Down the street from my hotel Chinese investors are building a massive stadium and casino complex. In sharp juxtaposition across the road, locals sell wooden carvings and fabrics.

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It’s a cliché to talk about the changes, and perhaps even more of a cliché to talk about all that hasn’t changed. Mozambique is still one of the world’s poorest countries. Recent mineral and natural gas discoveries, combined with the longest coastline of any single nation on the continent make this an enticing place for foreign investment, especially now that the government has shown some stability in recent years. Still, it’s estimated only 8% of the country’s budget goes to social services. 124,000 Mozambican children under 5 years are still dying each year and it is consistently towards the bottom of Save the Children’s list of worst places to be a mother.

I’ve been sharing the stories of mothers and their children in the developing world for three years now. But this is my first chance to be a witness. Mozambican families face a staggering range of problems. Malaria, HIV AIDS, tuberculosis, diarrhea, pneumonia and cervical cancer are just some of the big killers. Health services are generally free, but mostly funded by donors. There are service quality challenges, overwhelmed and grossly underpaid medical staff and still so many without health care at all.

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In the almost two weeks I’ve been here, I’ve talked with countless mothers.  They all work incredibly hard. I am in awe of their strength, of their patience, of their endurance. But burning through my mind is a pivotal question: when will the mothers of Mozabique get angry? I am waiting for the day when they loudly demand more of their government and society. This country has a big future, as long as government leaders remember they serve the people.

Africa is rising and it is a thrilling time to be here. I am convinced more each day that the voices of her mothers are the key in determining which direction she goes.

I am in Mozambique as an International Reporting Project (IRP) fellow, covering global health stories with a team of journalists from all over the world. Follow the whole conversation on Twitter and Instagram at #IRPfellows or see our collective reports here.

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I’ve had four opportunities to test my body’s limits and be the co-creator of new life. Four chances to bring a child into the world, four first breaths, four beginnings. With each birth, I learned more about what I was capable of, and with each birth, I found power, courage and voice.

My eldest child, the one who birthed me as a mother, came on the first anniversary of 9/11. It was a hard day to be a New Yorker but after laboring for 15 hours (through a Soho dinner, a midtown meeting, long walks on the Upper East Side and the taxi ride from hell the night before) she finally arrived with her fist in the air declaring her girl power!

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In the process, I received wonderful care. But I also felt pushed around and a little bit frightened to speak out about what I was experiencing. I wanted natural child birth, but I’d been awake for 40 hours and laboring for 12. My blood pressure crept up a little and the attending insisted on an epidural *, which I did not want. As a result, labor dragged on for another 3 hours. I vowed next time to listen to my body and speak up.

With my second child I went into labor at church and promptly insisted we would walk the 1.8 miles home through Central Park back to our apartment. I labored against trees and storefronts on a hot Sunday evening and delayed hospital for as long as I could. Another taxi ride from hell (a running theme when you have babies in big cities?) thumping over pot holes and praying traffic would magically dissipate. Twenty minutes after shuffling through the hospital doors, baby girl was in my arms. No one had time to tell me what to do!

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My third was another experience in not being heard, but boy, did I find my voice. From the moment we arrived until five minutes after his birth, the attending physicians ignored everything I knew about my body. To be fair, labor and delivery was packed to overflowing. But I now knew that once dilated, my body moved fast. 45 minutes later I ‘caught’ my son, by myself (I’d sent my husband out for help) behind a curtain in a triage room with eight other women. I had dilated from a ‘four’ to a ‘ten’ in 40 mins. The registrar who’d repeatedly ignored me when I’d told him what would happen was completely gobsmacked (yes, that’s a technical term). When my son took his first breath, I reached down and roared in a loud mama bear voice, “give me my child” and wouldn’t let anyone near him for hours. Body listened to, voice finally heard — check!

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Finally my last son, a much wanted miracle after a couple of miscarriages (one particularly tough). I gave birth with midwives, in a bright beautiful room larger than my Manhattan apartment. Beloved was sadly 2,100 miles away at the time (our son was a few days early), but my mother was Beloved’s eyes and hands via speaker phone! As I went from a ‘five’ to a ‘ten’ in five minutes (yup, you read that right), everyone listened. Everyone trusted I knew exactly what I was talking about and calmly went about supporting me as my baby arrived into the world.

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With each birth story, I was born a mother all over again. I also found my voice. Strong and clear and loud and present.

May is the month of motherhood. My friends at Every Mother Counts are fighting every day for all mothers to have the right to be heard, the right to decent pregnancy care and safe births. Every two minutes a mother dies from causes related to pregnancy and childbirth. Instead of a 20 minute taxi ride across bumpy Manhattan streets, many women walk for hours to a clinic, or are thrown around the back of a truck that scales massive ditches over the miles it takes to reach an emergency care facility.

You can take two simple actions to help prevent unnecessary maternal deaths.

  • Upload two photos
  • Donate two dollars
  • Share two facts
  • Run two miles
  • Buy two gifts

You’ll find them all here. Add your voice for all mothers everywhere.

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* I am not against epidurals. But I am for being listened to!

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In October 1990, just a few months after his release from 27 years in prison, Nelson Mandela toured the world to thank those countries and people who agitated for his release and the end of apartheid. One of his stops was at St Mary’s Cathedral in Sydney, Australia, for an non-denominational service where he captivated […]

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